Good Girl Reform School
(Fall 2023)
Name one good girl who has changed the world.
You can’t. Because she can’t.
Name one Good girl who re-defined what is possible for women by living in deep integrity to her wildest dreams, breaking boundaries or even out-dated rules in love, work, and the world at large.
Kind of hard isn’t it?
That’s because it is the Good Girl’s job to maintain the status quo.
Keeps things as they are.
Smooth over.
Harmonize.
And never rock the boat.
So no, a Good Girl can’t change the world.
Unfortunately, a Good Girl can’t even change HER world. She struggles to make basic changes that stick. She doesn’t transform, create, and re-invent her life or her world.
And guess what? Most of us have a Good Girl inside us, not of our making.
She is not you. She is not me. She has a huge impact nonetheless.
Who is a Good Girl?
She is the internalized Patriarchy. She is the part of us that has been trained to adapt to a world that is crumbling and out-dated.
She is the part of us that is loyal to all that hurts and belittles her.
It hurts to carry her inside. But the biggest hurt is the trick that has you believe that she is you. That she isn’t a set of bad unconscious training. That she is a result of your personal flaws or weaknesses. That she is the us. Not what was taught to us in order to belong.
And what’s more…
The upkeep of our good girl is A LOT of work.
A Good Girl is moderate, in temperament and appetite. She avoids conflict, responds in a timely fashion, considers others first, and is an expert at making do. She never outshines anyone, but she never falls behind, either. She works her butt off, and never gets credit. She never asks for what she needs and makes sure to be able to go it alone.
And here is another piece:
Before we have the chance to think
Before we have the chance to choose
She is saying no to what we want
She is saying yes to doing favors we do not want to do
She is not speaking up when something feels off
She acts fast…
Welcome to the good girl auto responders…
Good Girl conditioning pops up in myriad sneaky ways - Here are a few of the good girl autoresponders we have identified :
Automatic yes to helping others
Automatic no to receiving offers
Missing the moment to act
Apologizing unnecessarily
Deflection of praise
Finally, Good Girl Conditioning hides our natural gifts, talents, and even superpowers
Most women freed of GGC are:
Great with money
Establish boundaries well and even playfully
Have and heed their impeccable intuition
Rock their love lives
Create rewarding career paths for themselves
Have rich social lives
Beat power players at their own games
Live very unique custom tailored lives
You weren’t born on to this planet to make everyone else’s life easier.
You didn’t incarnate here to bend over backwards to simplify everyone else’s day.
Good Girl Conditioning can be very hard to see because most of us don’t see it as conditioning, we see it as our own personal habits of letting ourselves down, of self-betrayal, of settling for crumbs, of not having self-confidence…
Welcome to Good Girl Reform School
Good Girl Reform School begins Saturday, November 18th 2023 with our Live Intensive.
In this month-long masterclass, we will unpack the roots of Good Girl Conditioning, how to step out of the pattern and learn tools to wield power and influence in positive, loving and generative ways.
What will you learn?
Breaking Good Girl Conditioning
Claiming your natural excellence with money
Using your erotic intelligence
Reclaiming your natural bullshit detector and organic boundaries
Keeping your identity in love
Attracting strong collaborators and lovers
Trusting your intuition
Preparing yourself for legendary visibility
Asking for what you need without reservation
How does Good Girl Reform School work?
Saturday, November 18th 2023
Live Good Girl Reform School Intensive
12-5pm EST
Access a new Module inside of the student portal each week
Module 1 - November 20th
Module 2 - November 27th
Module 3 - December 4th
Module 4 - December 11th
Monday, December 18th 2023
Live Good Girl Reform School Closing Ceremony
5-6:30pm EST
PLUS:
Homework to deepen your learning
Telegram Thread to connect with other students and get your questions answered by Kasia
Most of the women I teach have some form of Good Girl Conditioning but if you think it’s your thing alone, if you think it’s you, you can’t see it.
If you can’t see it, you can’t break it.
If you can’t break it, you can’t create something new.
To get unbound, we need to break out of Good Girl Jail, and then go back in to free the others.
Are you with us?
Tuition
One-time Payment: $1499
Payment Plan: $533 x3
Right now, the world needs women who are using their life force to redefine what it means to be a woman today: women leading from a place where they're full, not from a place where they're empty, exhausted and not asking anybody for support.
“Nothing kept me from studying at The Academy after I witnessed what was happening with my friends who took Power with Men.
EVERY woman needs to know this work to navigate the patriarchy from a place of strength and certainly.”